"While these couples had wedding parties that ignored gender norms, some may decide to not have wedding parties at all...."
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"David Green, 36, and Ryan Schwartz, 37, did not have wedding parties for their summer camp-themed wedding because they felt they 'create unnecessary exclusion and hierarchies in an event that is all about community,' said Mr. Schwartz.... Both Jewish, the two instead engaged in a tradition called a tisch, or a gathering of close friends and family before the wedding ceremony, on June 18 in Portland, Ore. Mr. Schwartz’s crew congregated in the living room; Mr. Green’s in the backyard. Eventually their two crews came together, and the couple received a 'high energy send-off' before they took an Uber to their wedding venue, said Mr. Green.... For Stephanie Ramones, 33... said she and her fiancé have many nonbinary friends and have felt most comfortable dropping wedding parties entirely. 'Creating an inclusive space and a space where people feel seen and cared for,' said Ms. Ramones...."
From "Making Their Weddings an All-Gender Affair/Some couples are forgoing certain traditions — like groomsmen and bridesmaids — in favor of more inclusivity. As one person planning a wedding said: 'That’s just being a good host'" (NYT).
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"David Green, 36, and Ryan Schwartz, 37, did not have wedding parties for their summer camp-themed wedding because they felt they 'create unnecessary exclusion and hierarchies in an event that is all about community,' said Mr. Schwartz.... Both Jewish, the two instead engaged in a tradition called a tisch, or a gathering of close friends and family before the wedding ceremony, on June 18 in Portland, Ore. Mr. Schwartz’s crew congregated in the living room; Mr. Green’s in the backyard. Eventually their two crews came together, and the couple received a 'high energy send-off' before they took an Uber to their wedding venue, said Mr. Green.... For Stephanie Ramones, 33... said she and her fiancé have many nonbinary friends and have felt most comfortable dropping wedding parties entirely. 'Creating an inclusive space and a space where people feel seen and cared for,' said Ms. Ramones...."
From "Making Their Weddings an All-Gender Affair/Some couples are forgoing certain traditions — like groomsmen and bridesmaids — in favor of more inclusivity. As one person planning a wedding said: 'That’s just being a good host'" (NYT).
That use of the word "crew" made it hard to understand what Green and Schwartz were doing. Would a traditional tisch have males and females in different rooms? I'm just guessing. Okay, I'll look it up.
I found this:
A traditional wedding begins with a hassan's tisch (a groom's table). The groom attempts to speak words of Torah while his friends interrupt with songs and jokes. Liquor flows freely. The ketubah(wedding contract) is usually signed at this time. During the groom’s tisch, the bride usually holds a kabbalat panim, a reception, in which she sits in a large throne-like chair and receives her guests. Today, many brides hold their own tisches where they too teach or hear friends recite words of Torah. Some couples hold a joint tisch.
So, if you want to innovate by doing something other than dividing the group into male and female, how do you do it? If only family were invited to the wedding, it would be easy to make 2 groups, but it doesn't sound as through the game of interrupting the about-to-be-married person would be the same. Once you add other guests — friends — how do you assign them to one group or the other? The NYT article glosses over this problem by using the word "crew." Who gets which friends and how good are they at interrupting you while you try to say words from the Torah?
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