"Sarah had terrible clothes. When I met her she wore baggy army pants which hid her incredible figure and then would say, ‘I dress for comfort,’ which is no excuse."
Said Alexandra Leenen, quoted in "What happened when my banker husband became a woman: inside our trans marriage/When Sarah Simoni fell in love with Harold Leenen, he had a high-flying career in the macho world of corporate banking – and a secret. Eight years later, Harold is now Alexandra" (London Times).
“My best clothes are the ones she buys for me,” says Sarah. “She always bought clothes for me right from the start of our relationship and definitely improved my style.”...
There are issues that still hurt: issues of sex, identity and the navigation of a relationship they prize above all things. Sarah, who has always retained her maiden name, will not refer to Alexandra as her “wife”.
“That would make me a lesbian and I’m not a lesbian,” she says. “I am a heterosexual woman.” They share a bed but no longer have sex.
When Alexandra first began to transition, initially with hormone therapy, in 2014, “three things happened”, says Sarah. “His pheromone smell changed, he began to develop breasts and I went into perimenopause, which floored my sex drive.”
Alexandra remains attracted to women. Before they travelled to Thailand together in November, when she underwent two operations to remove her genitals and create a vagina, they knew they would have to face the reality that other sexual partners could become part of their world.
“As long as no one falls in love,” says Sarah. She looks sad. Part of her still mourns the loss of the man. “He had such a beautiful penis,” she says abruptly. They both laugh at her outburst.
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